Throughout my life, I have tried different diets for losing weight. I never could reach my goal weight on Weight Watchers (WW), Adkins, Keto, The ZONE, or No sugar, No flour diet. I lost weight for a few months, but it was hard, really hard to sustain.
My lifestyle, did not lend itself to restrictions on foods, calorie counting, and tracking. Often times, my LIFESTYLE, the way I play, eat, and work sabotaged much of my efforts. The people I enjoy socializing with, eating, and going out with; those places I spend most of my time, at work, behind a computer, in my car, in my kitchen at home with my significant other seemed to give me excuses for deviations and slides. Much of the time, to tell the truth, I was always feeling stressed out with the diet plan and this idea of losing weight by a certain time. When I screwed up I would just guilt myself into getting back on “the wagon” so to speak or in other words-my diet.
Seeking clarification as to why my diets do not work, I started with the definition.
What is the Definition of diet?
According to the Webster’s Merriman Dictionary:
A: food and drink regularly provided or consumed a diet of fruits and vegetables a vegetarian diet
B: habitual nourishment links between diet and disease
C: the kind and amount of food prescribed for a person or animal for a special reason was put on a low-sodium diet
D: a regimen of eating and drinking sparingly so as to reduce one's weight going on a diet
One thing I never thought about every time I went on a diet is how crazy at times it made me and everyone around me. I would be really conscious of what I was putting into my mouth. I could eat this, or I couldn’t eat that. I would even find myself bringing my own food to pot lucks because I was afraid of “blowing it”. I would eat out and order something I thought was healthy only to find out the cook had slathered it in clarified butter, or some fat rich sauce.
After weeks of depriving myself of certain foods and eating only salads and chicken, I would reward myself with a glass of wine, and some rich dessert. My logic was that I had been really good all week so for the weekend, I could treat myself- right?! This had become my reasoning and habit over time. Reward for good dieting behavior.
I found myself at times eating the same combinations of food for breakfast, lunch and dinner. Here is just a few of the same things I ate for 6 months during my most extreme weight loss.
- A 100 calorie English muffin toasted with 2TBS powder peanut butter, dill pickle chips.
- 1 cup of plain Cheerios, half banana and half cup of almond milk
- 2/3 Cup of Plain Yogurt, half cup raw oatmeal, and half cup of blueberries
- 1 slice of Turkey Bacon, 2 egg whites, and a half tomato slices
For lunch:
- 60 calorie Tortilla, 1 slice oven roasted Turkey, ¼ avocado.
- ½ can of tuna, 5 Crackers, 1 stalk of celery, 1 C fruit
- 1 chicken breast roasted, ½ C Salad Greens, ½ C Tomatoes, 5 Olives
- Baked Grilled Cheese sandwich on 1 piece Rye Bread, 1 C Tomato Soup
- For dinner:
- Chicken Breast, 1 C. Broccoli, ½ Sweet Potato
- Black Bean and chicken Burrito w/ Fat Free Sharp Cheese/Salsa and a side salad
- Pork Loin, 1 C Red Potatoes and onions in Olive oil, Green Beans
- Gluten free Spaghetti, Canned Tomatoes/Ground Hot Italian chicken/Mushrooms/Onions sauce.
My snacks consisted of mixed nuts, seasonal fresh fruit and raw veggies, granola bars, frozen yogurt, flavored Greek yogurt, Granola, Pretzels, and flavored seltzer waters. Quite honestly, I became bored with eating the same things over and over again.
One time I read something about fasting and tried it for 18 hours. In theory, this is a good idea for maybe someone who is trying to cleanse their system by drinking only liquids for 10 hours after waking up. For me it was pure torcher, as I am used to eating breakfast every day. Skipping any meal made me miserable, or “Hangry”. Plus, I did not lose any weight by doing it. In fact, I found myself over eating and eating some foods I forbade myself to ever eat. Besides that, I felt like I had no energy to do anything. I am not saying fasting is a bad thing, it is just not right for me.
One of my least favorite things about dieting was feeling hungry all the time. If I vowed to myself not to eat after dinner, the cravings would overcome my willpower, and then it would be over for me at that moment. Homestyle buttered Popcorn, a glass of wine, and dark chocolate seemed to be my go to. I was being “bad” and at times I felt really guilty. How could I TRUST myself to lose any weight with this behavior?
One thing I have learned about myself is that losing weight is not always about the “diet”. It is more about understanding and TRUSTING myself to make the right food choices for me. Learning about eating “enough” and “better” Proteins, Carbohydrates, Vegetables, and Fats throughout the day consistently and in hand estimated portion sizes works!
Menu planning and preparation for my week has become a ritual. It takes time, so I schedule it into my week. Eating a well balanced meals and snacks consistently throughout the day has relinquished my evening cravings after dinner. I am no longer on or off my diet. I am no longer stressed when I go out or to a pot luck. I am mindful of how I eat or fuel my body in any home or social situation. Precision Nutrition Practices are my leisure and a big part of my deeper Lifestyle Health!